“Watch Over Your Heart”

As Christians we often find ourselves like Paul in Romans 7—wanting to do right and finding it sometimes difficult to do. We struggle and struggle, but it often feels like “3 steps forward, 2 steps back”. Despite our earnest desire to do right, we don’t; and as we go to the Lord in repentance for forgiveness, we can’t help but wonder what’s wrong with us.

The Scriptures teach us that it is a matter of what’s going on inside: our thoughts, our ideas, our fears, our urges, our pride, our anger—all the stuff going on inside of us that we often don’t pay close enough attention to.

And it is the very reason why Jesus spends so much time in the Sermon on the Mount talking about the internal issues of anger, lust, intentions, love, greed, revenge, pride, materialism, and worry. They are all internal, heart issues that are at the root of our sin.

And it’s why the book of Proverbs tell us, “Watch over your heart with all diligence, For from it flow the springs of life.” Proverbs 4:23, NAS95. Watch over your heart with all diligence—pay steady, unwavering attention; because these thoughts—good or bad—will become actions.

A deacon called on frequently to pray at prayer meeting always concluded his prayer, “And now, Lord, clean all the cobwebs out of our lives.”

Everyone knew what he was talking about, a request for the Lord to forgive all the little sinful words, attitudes, and deeds, that we all let accumulate in our lives.

But finally, it got to be too much for one of the brethren, who had heard him say that prayer so often. And one Wednesday night, just after hearing those words again, he jumped to his feet and shouted, “Don’t do it, Lord. Kill the spider!”

The brother had a point. If we kill the spider, the cobwebs go away. If we kill the sinful thoughts, the sinful words, attitudes, and deeds won’t come back, either.

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Giving Glory to God

Glorifying God is  not something that ends at the conclusion of a worship assembly. Giving glory to God for a Christians is a 7 day a week, 24 hour a day endeavor.  But how do we do this? Some believe that it is done by peppering our speech with a lot “hallelujah” and “praise the Lord”. I’d like to suggest that there are other even more effective ways of doing this.

Evangelism—This is the most obvious way in which we may glorify God, by talking to others about how much He has done for us and all of mankind through the cross. How He has saved us and how He can save others, too. Glorify God through the telling of the Gospel.

Speech—But there are also other kinds of words that can give glory to God: kind words, gentle speech, clean expressions, and wholesome exclamations. The kind of words that are devoid of using the Lord’s name in vain, or of vulgarity, or of gossip, or lying, or dirty jokes (Eph. 5:4). People can tell a Texan by his speech (I know), and so also one’s Christian speech will give away one’s belief in God. When people notice, tell them it is because of the Lord.

Attitudes—God will not be glorified by grumpiness, vengefulness, snootiness, impatience, curtness, or judgmental attitudes. Such attitudes have given Christianity and the Lord a bad name. Especially when worldly people are jovial, friendly, understanding, patient, loving, and pleasant to be around. When people wonder how you could be so upbeat on a cold, rainy day, tell them that it’s the Lord in your heart—glorify God. (Php. 2:5ff)

How We Dress—I’ve seen a lot of dress that glorifies a lot of bad stuff: sensuality, anarchy, obscenity, liquor, pride, and worse. But the Lord can also be glorified by what we wear and how we wear it. Modesty, appropriateness, and righteousness (if you’re wearing a t-shirt with a message on it) all give glory to God (1 Tim. 2:9,10). When people ask why you dress this way, let them know that the Lord is your fashion consultant.

Possessions—Paul told the Corinthians (2 Cor. 9:13) that their use of their monies for support of the poor in Judea would glorify God, and the way that we use our money and other possessions today still can glorify God or embarrass Him.

Entertainment—What would you deduct about a person who often views “adult” movies, listens to “gangsta rap” without conscience, and wouldn’t think twice about skipping church for something fun? Worldly? Fitting in? What would you deduct about a person avoids “adult” movie ratings, prefers wholesome entertainment, and refuses to skip church for a sports event or special concert? Different? A prude? Get the point? Even your entertainment can give glory to or dishonor God. If your entertainment choices are wholesome, people are likely to ask you, “Why?” Because of the Lord, of course.

Secular Job—The New Testament commands a good work performance of disciples, because it reflects well on the Lord. “Urge bondslaves to be subject to their own masters in everything, to be well-pleasing, not argumentative, not pilfering, but showing all good faith so that they will adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in every respect.” (Titus 2:9, 10).

Neighborhood Relations— What image do unbelieving neighbors have of the Lord and His church? They get one from you, you know. What have they seen? Neighborliness, friendliness, faithful attendance, sound morals, Bible respect and knowledge? Is God glorified in your neighborhood?

Home—Here we sometimes let our light go dim, we become “ourselves” and God fails to be glorified in front of our children, parents, and spouses. Even here we should glorify God with a civil tongue, right behavior, integrity, and love (Eph. 5:22ff).

Are you glorifying God in your everyday living?

Park LInscomb

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It Works Both Ways

The newly appointed manager of a chain of hotels was on his first inspection trip. In the kitchen of one of the  hotels observed a particularly unhappy looking dishwasher.

“Cheer up, my good man,” the new manager said, giving the gloomy fellow a friendly pat on the shoulder, “I started as a dishwasher, and now I am the general manager.”

“I know,” came the startling reply,  “but I started as general manager and now I’m the dishwasher.”

In Romans 11:19-23 Paul teaches this important spiritual point for all to hear and heed: it’s not how you start, it’s how you finish. The Jews mistakenly thought that being born (starting off) Jewish was enough to save, but God’s salvation was through faith in Jesus; they needed to believe in Him. Gentiles had lived abominable, shameful lives as pagans, but their sinful start didn’t have to determine their spiritual destination; faith and obedience to Jesus had the power to change everything. And some Gentiles who had just been saved seemed to have mistakenly thought that once that they had believed in Jesus that they could live as they pleased; but God expected newness of life, led by the Spirit.

Starting poorly doesn’t mean that we have to finish poorly. Hell is not a foregone conclusion for even the worst of sinners; faith and obedience to Jesus still has the power to change everything. And just as true, starting well doesn’t mean that we will finish well. It’s not enough to have simply been baptized, we must live as and remain a faithful disciple.

Our eternity is not based on how we start, but on how we finish.

Jesus’ promise to the church in Smyrna was “‘…Be faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life.” Revelation 2:10, NAS95. Are you growing toward a strong finish, or are you slouching toward a weak one?

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Rethinking This Thing About Being Your Authentic Self

There is a lot of buzz today about being our “authentic selves”. It is often used as rationalization for sinful behaviors, and can be heard in the memes of popular culture: ”I gotta be me”, “this is just who I am”, and sometimes even a misunderstanding and misapplication of the Shakespearean quote, “To thine own self be true…”. As one blogger I read recently put it…

The phrase [“To thine own self be true”] echoes something which I have heard subscribers to a particular brand of therapy repeat as a sort of mantra: “I just really need to focus on me right now.” In fact, the phrase appeals to our complacency, not to our resilience. Its function is to swell our laziness, not to stoke our resolve. It’s use is to excuse our disagreements with society, not to force us to reconcile them with fact. We are all victims, suffering in vain, alone in our wisdom, against an unfair society that condemns iconoclasts. (http://bigthink.com/the-proverbial-skeptic/to-thine-own-self-be-true-really)

I’m not only in agreement, I’d go a step further and say that from a Christian standpoint—I hope you’re not too shocked—God isn’t really interested in us being our “authentic selves”. Interestingly enough, He’d prefer we not be our authentic selves. Isn’t that the whole point of baptism: dying to our “authentic selves” and letting Christ live in us?

Our “authentic selves” are inclined to sin, have sinned, and (given the opportunity) will continue to be willful, rebellious, and self-seeking. It is the “natural man”. Our “authentic selves” have given us this fallen world, the wars, the atrocities, the broken homes, the broken hearts, the abuses, the hatreds, the violence, death, and all the evil this world has to offer. Yes, that was us, our “authentic selves”—not God, not chance, not randomness—starting with Adam and running down to the present moment. God made the world “very good”, and we made a mess of things.

What the Lord wants of us, what discipleship to Jesus is, what He sacrificed Himself for is a “new creation” (Gal. 6:15), to be “born again” of water and the Spirit (John 3:5), to put on the “new self” in the likeness of God (Eph. 4:22-24), and to be a “new creature” with old things passed away (2 Cor. 5:17). Jesus describes as denying self (Matt. 16:24), taking up one’s cross daily (Luke 9:23), and following Jesus (Matt. 4:19). There’s not a hint of the “old me” or the “authentic self” present in discipleship to Jesus.

What the authentic self wants is to be saved by Jesus without having to change anything, what is sometimes called “cheap discipleship”. It wants forgiveness without repentance, salvation without dying to self, and Heaven without obedience. It believes that its “authentic self” is more important than Jesus’ holiness. “Authentic self” seeks to be the center of the universe around which all others (including God) revolve; discipleship to Jesus recognizes the real center of the universe.

Now, don’t misunderstand. The old personality still exists; but now it’s been redeemed, transformed, and put under the authority of Christ. And likewise, growth and maturity are a part of this “equation” and will take some time and effort; the old habits and attitudes will continue to crop up and will sometimes take time to “crucify”. We will continue to sin; but now we repent, accept correction, and seek to change—quite unlike the “authentic self”.

Follow Jesus wholeheartedly and unreservedly all the way to Heaven. Being your “authentic self” is terribly overrated and will lead you unswervingly to Hell.

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Does It Matter What Church I Go To?

Our world is very confused about religion these days. It’s easy to understand why: it’s become “all about me” and what I want. Ask someone about why they go here or there for church and you’ll get different answers. It’s what fits my “lifestyle”. It’s about what speaker appeals to me. About what worship services are like. About whether there are people your age or not. But little if any reference to the truth or what God commands. This leaves most thinking that where you go to church has everything to do with what I like or don’t like, because it really doesn’t matter. But it does matter.

It matters, because not every “church” is the Lord’s church. Claiming things doesn’t make them so. The Lord has described His church and when one reads Acts 2 a few fundamental things become pretty clear. Forgiveness of sins happens at baptism, forgiveness of sins is the essence of being saved, being saved is the requirement to being added to the Lord’s church. Thus, not every group that claims to be the Lord’s church are the Lord’s church. So, it matters, because you may not really be going to church at all.

It matters, also, because not every “church” worships God as God has commanded. Let me use an Old Testament example (an appropriate approach for learning—1 Cor. 10:11), King Jeroboam (1 Kings 12) was Jewish (therefore, part of God’s people) and he worshipped the God of Israel (good), but he did so through idols, through a different priesthood, with different holy days, and in different places than required. These differences were know in the rest of the Old Testament history as the “sins of Jeroboam”. Some groups that have actually been saved (are God’s people), are worshipping the Lord (as they should), but are nevertheless not worshipping the Lord as He has commanded (like Jeroboam). Some churches use musical instruments (see Eph. 5:19), let women lead in mixed worship (see 1 Cor. 14:34), or fail to partake of communion weekly (see Acts 20:7). Pleasing worship makes a difference to God, and it should also make a difference to us. Should a Christian worship like a modern Jeroboam? It matters to God.

It matters, lastly, because God intends to take only His church to Heaven. Jesus said, (Matthew 7:13, 14) ““Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it. For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it.” It matters if you want to get to Heaven.

Rather than attending the church of your choice, why not worship with the church of Christ’s choice?

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What’s the Best Thing for Me?

Deuteronomy 4:5-8 ““See, I have taught you statutes and judgments just as the LORD my God commanded me, that you should do thus in the land where you are entering to possess it. “So keep and do them, for that is your wisdom and your understanding in the sight of the peoples who will hear all these statutes and say, ‘Surely this great nation is a wise and understanding people.’ “For what great nation is there that has a god so near to it as is the LORD our God whenever we call on Him? “Or what great nation is there that has statutes and judgments as righteous as this whole law which I am setting before you today?”

In the Garden of Eden, part of the serpent’s deception to Eve was placing doubt in her mind about God’s will being the best thing for her and Adam. Satan accused God of an evil motive of simply not wanting Adam and Eve to be wise like God Himself.  And things haven’t really changed all that much, have they? Even today we can read through Scriptures that correct us or threaten to change us and Satan still whispers in our ears very familiar charges, “Aw, really? That’s not living! God is nothing but a cosmic killjoy!”

Is it true? A lot of people in the world think so, and maybe you’ve been tempted, too. Let’s think about it.

First, this is God we’re talking about here! The God who has provided for us life and everything that sustains it and lots of nice things that make life pleasant and pleasurable. His nature is and always has been kind and generous and helpful (for example, Gen. 2:18 and Deut. 6:24). His nature is the essence of goodness, and not only does He seek not to do us harm, but He actually seeks to bless us and do us good. He has our very best interests at heart. The ultimate proof is that He gave His only begotten Son to die in our place for things that we have done. Would a God who has done us so much good really be trying to squelch our good times? The nature and character of God teaches us that we may be certain that His commands are the best thing for us to do.

But we should also hasten to add that God’s words are tested—look at the results of the lives of those who obey. 2 Samuel 22:31 tells us, “As for God, His way is blameless; The word of the LORD is tested; He is a shield to all who take refuge in Him.” It is true; tested by millions over thousands of years in cultures all over the world, God’s words have been found good, right, and beneficial. God, you see, is actually far, far wiser than any man (when’s the last time you created a working universe?); we shouldn’t be surprised by this, but somehow we are. It is sad and ironic how men foul up their own lives and the lives of others and then try to blame God (see Prov. 19:3). God’s words are truth (Psa. 19:7 / Psa. 119:160 / John 17:17). And even the world recognizes it in its soberer moments.

There’s a deliberate tease found in Romans 12:2, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.” If you really try it, it will be obvious to you. An old invitation hymn has a verse that runs this way, “But we never can prove the delights of His love, until all on the altar we lay. For the favor He shows and the joy He bestows are for those who will trust and obey.” And it is so true.

Psalm 8 is a meditation and a parable all wrapped up in one, comparing the incredible perfection, fit, and beauty of the visible universe to the perfection and beauty our lives would be, if we were to simply be as obedient as the universe. Satan’s lie about God’s evil motives to limit us and keep us down is just as false as it always was. But let there be no doubt in anyone’s mind—in every situation, in every season of life, in every decision you need to make—God’s way will be best for you. Not necessarily easier, but always best

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About Negative Teaching

“Then the LORD stretched out His hand and touched my mouth, and the LORD said to me, ‘Behold, I have put My words in your mouth. See, I have appointed you this day over the nations and over the kingdoms, To pluck up and to break down, To destroy and to overthrow, To build and to plant.’” Jeremiah 1:9, 10, NAS95.

Speaking the Lord’s word has its share of thrills and privilege. I love to tell people about the forgiveness found in Jesus. I love talking about the resurrection body, Heaven, the tree of life, and the golden streets. I love talking about the Savior’s love for undeserving mankind and about the victory found in Jesus. It’s faith-lifting to me to talk of prayer, providence, and the power of God. And I am over-awed in speaking about the holiness and majesty of the only true and living God evidenced in a clear, starry night sky, the power of a storm, the grandeur of the mountains, and the “resurrection” of spring.

On the other hand, there are times when speaking God’s word isn’t quite as pleasant. Sometimes a preacher needs to talk about sin. Sometimes about error. Sometimes I need to tell people that they should do something that they really don’t want to do. Sometimes those conversations or sermons are kind of awkward and uncomfortable. But that’s the nature of faithful service to both God and man.

And yes, you read that correctly, “faithful service to both God and man.”

“Humph,” someone might say, “It doesn’t feel like much of a service to me, when you’re telling me I’m wrong or you’re correcting me.”

Yeah, I get that, believe it or not. But I also know that anyone in their right mind would prefer to be corrected by a human being here and now, when there’s still opportunity to do a course-correction; rather than be judged by God in the ultimate sense on the last day, without a chance to change things. What sort of favor am I (or any Christian) doing for someone lost in sin by saying nothing and letting them remain in the sin that will damn them in the end? What service am I doing by keeping my peace toward someone who has believed in Jesus, but has never obeyed Him in baptism?

Yes, the message is sometimes negative, but correction, rebuke, reproof, warning, and admonition are all part of the Lord’s Gospel and the teachings of the New Testament. Did you notice in the passage quoted above that ⅔ of the message was going to be negative; only ⅓ was about building and planting. The inspired apostle Paul speaks of a similar ratio, too…

“All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness;” 2 Timothy 3:16, NAS95.

and

“preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort, with great patience and instruction.” 2 Timothy 4:2, NAS95.

Why this ratio? Largely because doing sinful things is just so common and false teachings are everywhere. If you’re a math teacher and students are coming up with lots of subtraction errors, you wouldn’t dwell on the elegance of a good algebra equation; you’d mainly work on correcting the subtraction errors—even if you also wanted to talk about the beauty of algebra. Similarly, to enjoy the newness of life given at baptism (Romans 6:4), to experience abundant living given by the Lord (John 10:10), and to be certain that the entrance into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ will be abundantly supplied to you (2 Peter 1:9) corrections, rebukes, reproving, etc. will be needed—along with the positive exhortations.

So next time you hear a negative Biblical teaching or sermon or statement, please at least entertain the idea that it’s not being offered in ill-humored criticism and judgment, but instead may be offered as a faithful service to both God and yourself. After all…

“Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold Is a wise reprover to a listening ear.” Proverbs 25:12, NASB.

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Certain About His Calling and Choosing You—Love

2 Peter 1:7 “and in your godliness, brotherly kindness, and in your brotherly kindness, love.”

God invites the entire world to come to Him, find salvation in His Son, and enjoy abundant and eternal life (John 3:16). Some heed and obey the call and are added to God’s elect people. But not everyone accepts His amazingly generous and gracious invitation, and even some of those who initially accept the call reject the Lord’s calling and election (Matt. 13:19ff) through disobedience, distraction, complacency, persecution, or neglect. And this is precisely why Peter was concerned to write to disciples of the first century.

So we’ve been tracing through Peter’s list of virtues (2 Peter 1:5-7), traits that need our attention, our diligence, and our nurture—because we all need to take care that we don’t stumble, so that “entrance into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ will be abundantly supplied” to us (v. 11). And now one last virtue is left on Peter’s list to add to our faith: love.

The Greek word here is agape, the Greeks’ highest and noblest word for love. Now some Greek linguists have argued that some of the words for love in the Greek language, including agape, are interchangeable. This could be true in some contexts, but when agape is right next to another word for love, brotherly love, philadelphia, we can be certain that the higher and nobler meaning of agape is what Peter had in mind.

Here is a love that is much more than a human emotion, more than a short-term flutter of the heart, more than sexual attraction, more than family loyalty. Here is a word that involves the mind, but not in a cold and calculating “Vulcan” sort of way. Rather it is a decision—sometimes involving great courage, sometimes operating against one’s own self-interest—in which an evaluation of what is truly in another person’s best interest is made and acted upon, regardless of the feelings of the moment.

This is a kind of love that is beyond an affection for those near and dear to us; it is one that we must have for all mankind. It is the only kind of love that exists that can be genuinely exercised to benefit neighbors far and near, enemies, persecutors, irritating people, the foreigner, and the lost of all mankind. It is a decision to act in the best interest of both the Jew and Gentile, those in authority and those of humble circumstance, the black and white, the young and old, the educated and uneducated, the citizen and the criminal, the sinful and the moral, the religious and the irreligious, and those with whom we agree and with whom we strongly disagree.

And not only must we choose this love and exercise it; but remember, we need to be increasing in it, too (v. 8). So, how do we do that? Here’s a suggestion…

One of my favorite passages about love is Ephesians 3:17-19:

“so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; and that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God.”

Did you notice? We’re encouraged to use our imagination to try to grasp God’s and Christ’s love, as if it were something concrete. What a challenge, because what an immense love it is!

  • breadth—a love so wide as to include all men, including every sinner, of every era.
  • length—a love for mankind, seen in God’s plan of salvation, conceived from before the beginning of time, winding through all of history, and even trailing off beyond time into eternity.
  • height—a love so noble, so holy, that it was able to rise above the righteous fury caused by the offense of sin, and offer grace to unworthy sinners anyway.
  • depth—a love so humbly serving that it would wash feet, touch lepers, and die an excruciating, humiliating death for every sinner who would believe.

Now, while Paul impresses and encourages us with Christ’s love, this passage also gives a challenge to us. In John 13:34 Jesus said, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.” OK, so here’s a path to increase in agape love: aim to attain the width, length, height, and depth of the love of the Savior. That’ll stretch anyone—for a lifetime.

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Certain About His Calling and Choosing You—Brotherly Kindness

2 Peter 1:7 “and in your godliness, brotherly kindness, and in your brotherly kindness, love.”

There are a number of commands in the Bible about loving others. We must love our enemies, our neighbors, our husband or wife, our children or parents, and our brothers and sisters in Christ. Each of these categories carries its own special level of difficulty; but of all these kinds of people whom we are commanded to love, the kind that gets the most “ink” in the New Testament is the love of brethren in the church. This emphasis may be partly because of the Jew/Gentile merger in the early church; but anyone who has been a Christian for even a little while also knows that love of the brethren can be one of the disciple’s biggest challenges.

Some of the many better known New Testament passages on this topic include…

  • John 13:35 “By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”
  • 1 Peter 1:22 “Since you have in obedience to the truth purified your souls for a sincere love of the brethren, fervently love one another from the heart,”
  • 1 John 4:20 “If someone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.”

Clearly, this isn’t a suggestion, that we can take or leave as we might wish, nor is there a lot wiggle room for “interpretation” (what we humans like to do, when we don’t like what Scripture says). And this is why 2 Peter 1:7 draws our attention here to increasing our love for our brethren in Christ, to make certain about our calling and election (2 Pet. 1:10).

So, how do we do it?

First of all, brotherly love (Greek: philadelphia) requires some effort: (Ephesians 4:2, 3) “with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in love, being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” Brotherly love, takes diligence (hard work and attention). We’d love for this (and other Christian virtues) to come naturally, but virtue comes only with deliberate and thoughtful exertion. Do you want to grow in brotherly love? Roll up your sleeves and give some focus and energy to it.

Second, practicing brotherly love means that we’ll need to be spending time together. And these days, that seems to be a greater and greater challenge! We may be engulfed in social media and virtual communities, but let’s not fool ourselves, that’s not where brotherly love is cultivated. Christian “philadelphia” is nurtured in face to face worship assembly, (Heb. 10:25), Bible classes (Acts 2:42), small groups (Acts 12:12), hospitality settings (Rom. 12:13), working together, and just “hanging out” with fellow disciples. It’s difficult to forge the bonds of brotherly love toward people you don’t associate with very much. If we want to obey God in this matter, we need to plan and make the effort to get together with one another.

Moreover, brotherly kindness, brotherly love, treats a brother or sister with proper respect. Here’s a verse that many may not be familiar with, but it’s full of meaning in this context: (1 Timothy 5:1, 2) “Do not sharply rebuke an older man, but rather appeal to him as a father, to the younger men as brothers, the older women as mothers, and the younger women as sisters, in all purity.” And by the way, this aspect of brotherly kindness also includes the respect of greeting one another (Rom. 16:16) and not just a few “buds” (Matt. 5:47). Respect may be “old hat” in modern times, but God commands it for Christians.

Brotherly love (philadelphia) also takes care with its liberty. Paul warned the Corinthian congregation that those who wanted to use Christian liberties (1 Cor. 8,9) must be careful to use it in such a way as to not cause a weaker brother to stumble. Loving brothers means deliberately limiting ourselves for the spiritual welfare of someone else. Christians care more about their brethren than their personal desires.

God’s family, when it is practicing brotherly love, takes care with their tongues, avoiding gossip, along with harsh, angry, and hyper-critical words and attitudes (Eph. 4:25—5:5). Words are often very cruel—sometimes, in the ear of the hearer, even crueler than we intended them to be. Disciples think carefully and will often even pray before they speak.

Brotherly love also means letting God, as our Father, settle our disagreements—and yes, disagreements are normal and to be occasionally expected. Folks in the world have a difficult time settling arguments, because they have no standard; but Christians do. When we have problems with our brother, we are expected to actively make up with them. Jesus taught in Matt. 5:21-26 and 18:15-18 that regardless of whether you are the offended party or the offender it is your responsibility to make up. And when matters are settled, our Father expects that we will forgive (Matt. 18:21ff). The fundamental problem in most worldly reconciliations is an unwillingness to forgive. But Christians must; the man or woman who does not, will not be forgiven by the Lord. And when we let the Lord settle our disagreements, peace prevails.

Don’t neglect this often overlooked and undervalued virtue of those whose calling and election is sure! Love your brother.

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Certain About His Calling and Choosing You—Perseverance

2 Peter 1:6 “and in your knowledge, self-control, and in your self-control, perseverance, and in your perseverance, godliness,”

One of the dangers of discipleship over over a span of years is that the disciple can—if he’s not careful—become a little too comfortable with his or her level of maturity. Though we might never actually say that we’re satisfied with “good enough”, we might grow weary with putting out the sort of effort that Paul describes in Philippians 3:13, 14, “Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”

Why keep pressing on? Paul and other inspired writers of the New Testament knew that if we’re not growing spiritually, we are likely to be getting weaker spiritually—and growing spiritually weaker could end in falling away and losing our soul. And this is exactly why Peter writes, “Therefore, brethren, be all the more diligent to make certain about His calling and choosing you; for as long as you practice these things, you will never stumble” (2 Peter 1:10).

So, we’ve been talking about a series of virtues—found in 2 Peter 1:5ff—that Peter urges upon us, things in which we can grow and which will help to safeguard our souls. We looked at diligence, moral excellence, knowledge, and self-control. This time perseverance.

The Greek word for perseverance here is hupomenè. It’s meaning is rooted in Spartan military tactics, describing a heroic volunteer who would stay behind in a retreat to protect his comrades to his dying breath. This heroic role, then, became the word for a courageous sort of patience—greater than ordinary patience or “long suffering”. And it became the preferred word in the New Testament for Christian endurance. And here, Peter encourages us to obtain (v.8), practice (v.10), and increase (v.8) in it—along with the other virtues.

“OK, so, how do we obtain it?” Obtaining the virtue of perseverance begins with a real faith in the God who rescues. Quintessential examples of perseverance can be found in Daniel’s friends Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, when they said, “If it be so, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the furnace of blazing fire; and He will deliver us out of your hand, O king. But even if He does not, let it be known to you, O king, that we are not going to serve your gods or worship the golden image that you have set up.” (Daniel 3:17, 18). Listen to that faith! Such faith provides the confidence and strength that are at the core of Christian perseverance.

“But, how do we practice it?” That comes with recognizing the battle. Now, while we may not be required to face the same flames as S,M,&A, we do live in a world with plenty of opposition to God’s way, plenty of opportunity to exercise a courageous “standing firm” (1  Cor. 16:13; Eph. 6:11-14; Php. 4:1; and others) against the wrong and standing up for what’s right. The battles are engaged when someone entices you compromise your morals, when someone speaks against the Lord, when others argue for things that the Bible says are wrong, or when the temptation is strong to go along to get along. The world has tried to “train us” to  just passively put up with the persecution, but the Lord calls us hupomenè. Recognize and use opportunities to be courageous for the Lord.

“But, how do we increase in it?” In the regular practice of hupomenè and getting practiced at standing firm in unashamed and courageous perseverance, we learn and we grow in it. The more you are trained in it, the better your responses will be to anti-Christian persecution and opposition, the greater your trust in the Lord will grow, the easier it will be to resist the forces in the world that seek to conform us to the world’s ideas, morality, and way of thinking. Think of it like self-defense training—as you train and practice, the right “move” become more instinctual and perhaps leads to combinations of moves, leading to expertise, etc.

Why does perseverance matter in making our calling and election sure? Mere long suffering just hopes to hang on long enough. But perseverers are fortified with courage and defiance of the wrong. Such Christians do more than merely endure their beating; they courageously stand against the “world forces of this darkness” (Eph. 6:12), knowing in Whom they’ve believed and knowing His ability to give the victory, when they stand firm!

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